For those who don't understand the term, being clingy means showing signs you are attracted to someone to the point of almost being obsessed with someone. Signs of being clingy includes calling too often, constantly telling the other person how much you love them, writing love letters, poems, songs, buying flowers/chocolate. Basically showing affection but doing it all the time, and wanting to spend time together all the time, so much so, it gets annoying. 

A lot of people act clingy because they've been influenced by movies, sitcoms or romance novels and think the appropriate way to generate attraction is to show the other person as much interest as possible, or they are either insecure, and want to make sure the other person really likes them, or likes them just as much. 

What a lot of people don't understand is that showing that you're totally into someone else lowers your value, and actually makes you less attractive or even repulsive. Just think of any time when someone you're not interested in starts chasing you, and continues to chase you hard even when you are not interested. 

Many people who act clingy actually need to do the opposite when they're interacting with someone they like. They need to exercise self control and show they're actually nonchalant, i.e. coolly unconcerned or indifferent. The last thing you want to do when the other person is showing a lack of interest is to chase even harder. The best thing to do is just to hang out and have fun without trying to influence the other person too much. 

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